Honestly, i think spanking is not as bad as half of you guys are making it seem.
I come from a Chinese family who immigrated over before i was born, and spanking seemed to be a common punishment there. My parents (and me too) didn't see the point to grounding or time outs or anything. what's the point of telling a child to sit in a corner for 15 minutes? what is it going to do? the child isn't going to sit there and mull over whatever they did, they're just going to go totally ADD and get distracted by anything and everything. they're really not old enough to learn true lessons about how what they did was morally wrong. by the time they reach that age, they can be shamed into learning the right thing. i was spanked whenever i did something majorly bad, and i think it served as a physical reminder of whatever i had done wrong, and kind of like a "don't do that again, because mommy and daddy don't like it." it's definitely how i grew up, and i honestly don't know how else little kids can learn.
offtopic: i know my next door neighbor's kids are spoiled to hell, and they don't get spanked. one of those little kids dropped his pants when i was there, telling me "look at my weewee otherwise i won't go pee" not that this has to do with my opinion on spankings. don't take this out of context. i just found it entertaining.
obviously, beatings and stuff like that really isn't the way to go, and i don't approve of spanking with sticks or (in my friend's case, wooden spoons) but i think that nothing wrong can come of a few smacks to the tush. Obviously, smacking a kid over the knee once they're past 7 or so is ridiculous....
I come from a Chinese family who immigrated over before i was born, and spanking seemed to be a common punishment there. My parents (and me too) didn't see the point to grounding or time outs or anything. what's the point of telling a child to sit in a corner for 15 minutes? what is it going to do? the child isn't going to sit there and mull over whatever they did, they're just going to go totally ADD and get distracted by anything and everything. they're really not old enough to learn true lessons about how what they did was morally wrong. by the time they reach that age, they can be shamed into learning the right thing. i was spanked whenever i did something majorly bad, and i think it served as a physical reminder of whatever i had done wrong, and kind of like a "don't do that again, because mommy and daddy don't like it." it's definitely how i grew up, and i honestly don't know how else little kids can learn.
offtopic: i know my next door neighbor's kids are spoiled to hell, and they don't get spanked. one of those little kids dropped his pants when i was there, telling me "look at my weewee otherwise i won't go pee" not that this has to do with my opinion on spankings. don't take this out of context. i just found it entertaining.
obviously, beatings and stuff like that really isn't the way to go, and i don't approve of spanking with sticks or (in my friend's case, wooden spoons) but i think that nothing wrong can come of a few smacks to the tush. Obviously, smacking a kid over the knee once they're past 7 or so is ridiculous....