People have been talking about recent -scape- problems, but I seriously have a big problem, and I feel I need to share it with the community.
As one to question authority, I really worry about how this place is run, granted I understand (as much as one can) that the mods and administrators definitely have their hands full, and God bless them for keeping this place alive.
However, I've noticed serious harshness from older members and staff members directed at newer members. Yes, I understand that there is a great need to keep out obnoxious, annoying, uneducated fangirls who can just READ the lovely biographies on the website, but what about people asking questions and then threads getting locked left-and-right? To be honest, I LOVE this community, but I feel like it tends to go through these crappy phases, you know? I think we can all agree that -scape- is at least not at its best at the moment, or at least I'd hope so.
But, as a semi-established member, I question the motives for constantly locking threads left-and-right. My only real problem is that I feel like I have to dance to some specific ballet set by the mods to keep from having topics locked.
Please understand that I seriously DO NOT intend to disrespect ANY of the staff members OR any of the established members. I am just seriously concerned because I truly love this site, even if I have never really fit in.
It's just these worries that've caused me to want to leave... again. And, I understand that I can be annoying to some and that a LOT of people don't agree with me; that's fine, and I came to terms with that in my "real life" LOOOONG ago (comparitively). I'm not just talking about the issue in the "Kana - Spade" thread. I did seem to REALLY offend quite a few people (but I still do not understand it; I was only stating my opinions). But, that--the fact that I feel uncomfortable in simply stating my opinions because I FEEL that people can't just agree to disagree--and the fact that I've seen a LOT of threads being locked over and over again just bothers me...
Again, though, I REALLY don't mean to be disrespectful; I say this out of pure concern, and if I've terribly offended anyone, I do ask to be forgiven just because I would really like to continue posting here and being an active member of this community, but I would really like to hear people's feedback...
As one to question authority, I really worry about how this place is run, granted I understand (as much as one can) that the mods and administrators definitely have their hands full, and God bless them for keeping this place alive.
However, I've noticed serious harshness from older members and staff members directed at newer members. Yes, I understand that there is a great need to keep out obnoxious, annoying, uneducated fangirls who can just READ the lovely biographies on the website, but what about people asking questions and then threads getting locked left-and-right? To be honest, I LOVE this community, but I feel like it tends to go through these crappy phases, you know? I think we can all agree that -scape- is at least not at its best at the moment, or at least I'd hope so.
But, as a semi-established member, I question the motives for constantly locking threads left-and-right. My only real problem is that I feel like I have to dance to some specific ballet set by the mods to keep from having topics locked.
Please understand that I seriously DO NOT intend to disrespect ANY of the staff members OR any of the established members. I am just seriously concerned because I truly love this site, even if I have never really fit in.
It's just these worries that've caused me to want to leave... again. And, I understand that I can be annoying to some and that a LOT of people don't agree with me; that's fine, and I came to terms with that in my "real life" LOOOONG ago (comparitively). I'm not just talking about the issue in the "Kana - Spade" thread. I did seem to REALLY offend quite a few people (but I still do not understand it; I was only stating my opinions). But, that--the fact that I feel uncomfortable in simply stating my opinions because I FEEL that people can't just agree to disagree--and the fact that I've seen a LOT of threads being locked over and over again just bothers me...
Again, though, I REALLY don't mean to be disrespectful; I say this out of pure concern, and if I've terribly offended anyone, I do ask to be forgiven just because I would really like to continue posting here and being an active member of this community, but I would really like to hear people's feedback...