I think it's time for a little reality check here. As we're all well aware by now, Kaya's career has taken him in a direction that means serious discussion of his work and image can involve mature themes, sexual content, etc. HOWEVER: this doesn't excuse you all from the usual rules about decency and respect for the artists. I expect discussion to remain tasteful and respectful, and of course rumors about various musical personalities' private lives have no place here. Just use common sense and we can discuss music like mature adults.